Friday, April 8, 2011

How Can Women Stay Safe When Traveling Solo


Today we're featuring a Guest Post by new travel site http://www.findbooktour.com

-- hope you ENJOY!

Traveling alone can be one of the most rewarding experiences an individual can ever have, providing opportunities for self-growth and discovery it can be extremely enlightening. The best part about traveling alone is that you can do anything and everything that you want to do, there’s no one holding you back. Unfortunately, traveling alone is becoming more and more daunting, especially for solo female travelers because of safety reasons. Women are intimidated by the horror stories about female travelers being kidnapped, raped or worse because the woman was caught in a vulnerable situation. Yet, if you are smart about the decisions you make while traveling and use your common sense you can help prevent a dangerous situation and still enjoy the pleasures of traveling alone.

Before you start your solo trip the best thing to do is to provide your friends and family with a general itinerary, a basic idea of where you’ll be and when so they can track you. Once you’ve arrived at your destination try to email them as often as possible, also let them know if they won’t be hearing from you for a few days to not raise concern. Regular contact and updates will keep everyone posted on your whereabouts and they’ll be able to notice if anything is off beat and if there’s need for alarm.

When you finally arrive, your next step would be choosing the right sleeping accommodations. If you’ve made reservations ahead of time you should have researched the area and location to determine the safety and reputation of the place. If you’re going to be making your arrangements when you arrive, seek out a place that appears busy & ask about occupancy. The busier the location the more comfortable

you’ll feel staying there. Also consider location, choose a place that is close to your sightseeing destinations that way when you’re walking back you don’t have to go far. Once you’ve chosen where you’ll be staying there are several other measures you can take to ensure your safety:

• Request a room near the elevator – in order to avoid walking down long hallways

• Avoid ordering in or using house cleaning –this way no one comes to your room and learns you’re alone

If you’re in a hostel:

• Always use the lockers provided – make sure to bring your own lock

• Never leave your room key unattended – if there are communal restrooms take your key even into the shower (put it in a plastic bag if necessary).

After getting settled in, it’s time to start your adventure! There are a few things though to consider before stepping out and exploring, which includes dress and culture. Knowing how to dress accordingly is extremely important, make sure to do your research. For example, in countries such as Morocco or Egypt, majority of women dress conservatively and don’t show a lot of skin because of their Muslim

beliefs. For your own safety and to avoid any lewd stares or obscene comments your best bet is to dress modestly; don’t wear excessively short bottoms or shirts that are too low cut, you’ll draw unwanted attention from men and possibly offend the locals. If you do find yourself being verbally harassed, ignore the catcalls, unless you feel like you’re in real danger, if you don’t make a fuss then they’re likely to leave you alone. Understanding the regions culture determines your behavior, study what is acceptable

and what is taboo. Things like simple gestures, eye contact and physical contact vary on acceptability; familiarizing yourself with the simple norms can help you avoid any awkward or misleading situations.

Once you head out the door take some general precautions:

• Know where you’re going- map out your route, to avoid looking lost

• When you do look at your map make sure you’re discrete – sit down and use a small map to not draw attention to yourself

• Keep your belongings close at all times - try a money belt or better yet a Portapocket to hide some extra cash or hide some in your bra

• Use a cross body bag as a purse - carry it in front of you at all times to prevent pickpocketing

• If you’re ever in a mugging situation give up your bag without a fight - by doing so you’re less likely to be physically harmed

• Trust your instincts - get out of any scenario that makes you feel uneasy, your gut feeling is your best indicator of a dangerous situation

If you decide to go out in the evening make sure to do the following:

• Try to go out with a group - people that you may have met on your travels or at your hostel

• Beware when drinking - never take a drink from a stranger or leave yours unattended

• Take a cab - avoid walking alone or riding public transportation at night

There’s no reason why you should be afraid to travel alone just because you’re a woman. If you take the right precautions you can have a safe and enjoyable vacation. Traveling alone is a pleasure and if you’re lucky enough to be able to do so just make sure you’re smart in your travels.

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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

hello, ARNOLD! (er... Andy?)


Earlier this month I had the interesting experience to exhibit at the ARNOLD Sports Expo in Columbus, OH...
VERY interesting.

I'd heard the show had morphed from just attracting muscle-bound men to include almost anyone who participates in a fitness activity of any kind, and I have to agree. Among the 150,000+ throng were little girl cheerleaders, fitness models, martial arts people, funky people in weird costumes, he/shes, and the traditional body builders, among others. Quite the creative bunch!

We had lots of nice comments and sales -- was even called "genius" (yeah, whatever...just throw some $$ at me already...) ;-) Arnold (yes, THAT Arnold) was even over at a nearby booth and I was hoping to get him to stop by and sign the letter from his wife that I brought with me (...hey, Arnold! do you know Maria?), but no such luck. He was mobbed and I barely saw anything but the top of his head. oh well...

On the way home, I had the pleasure of meeting Andy Haman, one of the more well-known ARNOLD participants who sat near me on the plane coming home. And of course I had to see if PortaPocket worked on his arm (no problem) -- he was kind enough to oblige :) Anyway... he & his family are working with a MAJOR cable channel right now on a show about the strongest family in America (or something along those lines)...nice folks... I hope it works out for them!

You just never know who you'll run into next...
Who have you happened across in your day-to-day life?

Saturday, February 12, 2011

O the VIEW! now standing on my head... in traffic. whoopi!!


So there I am watching Oprah re-run last night at 11pm CST.
And there are the ladies from the VIEW as guests.
And there's Oprah saying to them --
something to the effect of.... "I can tell alot about someone from what she keeps in her purse... "
and there's Barbara, Joy, Sherri, & Elisabeth showing what's in theirs.
and then there's Whoopi.
And well,
Whoopi doesn't carry a purse.
so Oprah says to Whoopi, "so where do you put your stuff if you don't have a purse?"
HE-LLO
like, He-LLO????
I'm sitting here screaming at the huge chasm the size I could've driven a Mack truck through.
talk about the PERFECT time to mention PortaPocket.
c'mon.
...but no.
*ACK!*
I've sent samples to the VIEW, wrote on their website, mailed 'em to Oprah, walked them into harpo myself, sent 'em to Gayle, Whoopi, Sherri, Barbara, Elisabeth, tweeted, facebooked, commented, and yet...
here I still sit.
an unknown soldier.
Maybe I'll just go play in traffic.
naked.
that'll get someone's attention.
or...
maybe not?



Friday, January 14, 2011

So who hasn't been to Chicago?


okay okay...I know....MIA, right??
I've been just a teensy bit busy, so once again forgive my ever-expanding time lag between posts *ack!*

I'm gonna kick off 2011 with some good 'ole hometown cheerleading...
If you've never been to the Windy City....here are some great places to visit in Chicago that are unique to us here & well worth the time:

1. Even though no longer the tallest in the world, the Willis Tower (formerly Sears Tower) has an observation deck on the103rd floor that is impressive to see...
At 1353 feet, the building is still a sight to behold and the 3rd tallest on the planet. There's now a glass box Skydeck ledge that juts out over 4' from the building...only for the brave!
I used to work in that building back in the early 1990's (on 26th floor) and actually experienced an earthquake while working there. Fortunately it was a tiny one ;-)

2. Take an architectural boat tour on the Chicago River. It's an awesome way to experience the beauty of the city from a different vantage point and they operate at many times of the day. Plus, they run up & down the only River in the world that actually flows BACKWARDS! Wendella and Shoreline are a couple of those who offer these sojourns, and are easily accessed off of Michigan Avenue in the heart of the city.

3. Speaking of boats, our renovated Navy Pier is a treat with outdoor cafes, concerts, shopping, rental bikes, boat tours of Lake Michigan and things like a giant Ferris wheel, mini golf, and current home to the Chicago Children's Museum. You can spend a full day here and never run out of things to do.

4. Take a Michigan Ave stroll. For the shoppers among us, and even for those who aren't...there is a worthy promenade down the Gold Coast and passing the likes of Millennium Park (check out the BEAN sculpture, fountains and the Gehry-designed Pritzker Pavilion among other treats), the famous Art Institute, Orchestra Hall, and more. Grab a horse drawn carriage ride and enjoy the views.

5. Museum campus. For any taste, this swath of culture can deliver. This is a compendium of the Shedd Aquarium, the Adler Planetarium, and the Field Museum of Natural History, each of which can be enjoyed from a central space although there wouldn't be enough hours in your day! Soldier Field is also nearby for the Bears fans among us.

I could think of at least a dozen more, but perhaps in another post ;-)
In any event... we'd welcome you to see our beautiful city and are certain you'd enjoy your visit!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Holiday CHEERS!


Happy December --
have to say been a tad bit overloaded and remiss on writing...miss me?
OK......not!
But we still try...none-the-less... ;-)

The important thing is I'm baaack....and in the spirit of the season, I wanted to offer a few congratulations to some peeps I've met on social media channels...and their recent achievements/noteworthy news:

@CarryHer was interviewed by Donna Reyer (channel 18 news, NY) re: her awesome invention

@tamsenfadal from WPIX in NY and hubby @MattTitus were featured on TODAY segment with Kathie Lee & Hoda discussing relationships + their book Why Hasn't He Called?

@KimMance has heard word that @TripAdvisor & @DiamondPR are on board again as sponsors for #TBEX '11 -- woo hoo!


...and last but most certainly not least...a shoutout to my awesome twitbud, the inimitable Kay...
@KayBallard has penned her New and Improved Guru Guarantee! http://goo.gl/fb/3OSiP

what amazing news have YOU got to share? Do tell! :))






Tuesday, October 12, 2010

We made it into the top 200 Leading Moms in Business!


Wow -- where has the time gone? Hello, October!
For all of those who were so kind to support & vote for us throughout the months during StartupNation's leading moms in Business competition 2010 -- a HUGE THANK YOU!! With your gracious help we were named a winner at #40... we couldn't have done it without you!
We'd also like to express our Congratulations to fellow tweethearts who also scored wins in the competition...

kudos to all of you, and the other amazing winner moms, too!

As for us, it's now it's time to concentrate on all the Happy Halloweeners who could use our help carrying their cash (etc) under their costumes...
what are you wearing this holiday? Do you think PortaPocket would work with your outfit? We'd love to know!!
until next time....
go out there & brighten someone's day!

Saturday, July 24, 2010

How 'bout a little BLING?


So I've heard from a few people over the years about how they like the concept of PortaPocket but think it may not be fancy enough. I had a little bit of trouble understanding why the fashion of this really mattered seeing it's mostly under the clothes, but okay...I guess it's really true that perception IS reality so why fight it?
Get ready for the BLING!!

We're working on some do-it-yourself sparkly kits that will be an option for people to "fancy up" their PortaPocket as they wish. That way us plain but practical girls can keep ours naked like we like, and the fashionistas can add the razzle dazzle decor.

What colors and patterns would YOU like to see for PortaPocket Bling?
We'd love to hear your ideas!